Category: Families

  • Be my Valentine

    Be my Valentine

    JULIUS MANCOTYWA LADY GREY, FREE STATE The R392 between Lady Grey and Sterkspruit bears the apocalyptic scars of dissent: every few kilometres the tar is blackened by rows of burning tyres, and stones, rocks and other detritus of protest litter the way. En route to the Mancotywa home near the border between South Africa and…

  • Don’t go to the front

    Don’t go to the front

    SEMI JOKANISI LUSIKISIKI, EASTERN CAPE Every day at Lonmin’s Karee Four belt shaft Goodman Jokanisi walks with the ghost of his son, Semi, who died in the days leading up to the massacre at Marikana on August 16 2012. Father and son shared living quarters on the mine, but they worked different shifts. They would…

  • The pain still feels new

    The pain still feels new

    JACKSON LEHUPA MATATIELE, EASTERN CAPE Culture and poverty connive in the aftermath of the Marikana massacre. For Malukisang Lehupa it means marking the end of the mourning period for her husband, Jackson with a “semi-umembulo” — a cleansing ceremony. “We can’t afford to slaughter a cow now,” says Malukisang, “So we are doing half the…

  • Mandela would have come to us

    Mandela would have come to us

    MZUKISI SOMPETA LUSIKISIKI, EASTERN CAPE The massacre at Marikana has sent ripples of death through the families of the men that died that day. Mabhengu Sompeta says that when police killed her son, Mzukisi, on August 16 2012, they also killed her husband, Mxolisi. “He died two weeks after we buried my son on September…

  • MOLEFE NTSOELE

    MOLEFE NTSOELE

    He dreamed of flying DIPUTANENG, LESOTHO The dead fly to Diputaneng. Or sometimes they ride, strapped across horses. For the living, it’s a three-hour drive out of Maseru and past Semonkong on increasingly steep and treacherous roads before parking at the scattered hamlet’s local school and completing the last two and a half hours on…

  • how can you love me?

    how can you love me?

    BONGANI NQONGOPHELE ELLIOTDALE, EASTERN CAPE Marikana’s grapes of wrath have produced a bitter vintage for the families of the dead. Trauma, unresolved grief and impoverishment converge in desperation and, sometimes, squabbles for the scant resources left behind. The death of Bongani Nqongophele has torn his family apart, as acrimony grows over how best to use…

  • At least now I know’

    At least now I know’

    PHUMZILE SOKANYILE NDAMAZULU, EASTERN CAPE Trauma stalks the families of Marikana’s slain. This is most apparent in the hunted look in the eyes of their widows. In March this year Nocingile Sokanyile appeared harried and dis-orientated — as if, since the death of her husband Phumzile on August 13 last year, she had been on…

  • He was not there to strike

    He was not there to strike

    FEZILE SAPHENDU KWAYIMANI, EASTERN CAPE In the rural Eastern Cape, Saturdays are for attending funerals and Sundays for going to church and football matches. With televisions and newspapers a scarcity, Ntombi Saphendu, the sister of miner Fezile David Saphendu, first heard about the massacre at a funeral on August 18. “One of the speakers at…

  • I hate all of them

    I hate all of them

    THEMBELAKHE MATI THEMBELAKHE MATINTABANKULU, EASTERN CAPE Thembelakhe Mati died on August 13 2012. His family believes they will never know who killed him, as witnesses who are still working at Marikana fear they will be snuffed out if they speak up. There is little faith in the protection the state has offered in return for…

  • All I can get is a coffin

    All I can get is a coffin

    THABILE MPUMZA MOUNT AYLIFF, EASTERN CAPE On her darkest days Xolelwa Mpumza feels that all she will get from the Farlam Commission of Inquiry is a coffin for herself. Her eldest nephew, Wanda, leads the pack. She looks harried and bleary-eyed on the morning of May 31. Recently returned from Rustenburg, she says that when…